Now that school has started I seem to be busy from the minute I wake up until I get home, and then busy with food shopping, cooking and cleaning. Adding to that is having one niece get married, and a nephew and another niece both get engaged. (They are all actually my great nieces and nephew) So it’s parties and weddings and family get togethers non stop. Here’s a glimpse into some of the fun which has kept me from my blog!
This week Paula invites us to pick a word for Thursday’s Special. Here are my picks:
setting – ocean front wedding
nubilous – cloudy, misty, not clear
A Momma’s View says: Let’s kick off this week on a positive note. By sharing something good, something that made you happy or you are looking forward to .
So I’ll combine Trent’s Weekly Smile along with a Momma’s View and share what made me happy and smiley this past week.
My niece became engaged! Actually she is my great niece, and a great niece she is! She just passed her Nursing Boards and a few days later became engaged. She calls herself the Nurse Bride now.
The family got together to celebrate, where a good time was had by all. I saw two of my other great nieces, whom I have written about before, one is the Bride’s sister, the other a cousin. They are both 15 and we always have fun when we get together. So next step is the upcoming wedding in September, time to go shopping for a dress!
Here’s the Bride to Be and her 3 sisters- they are a very close knit bunch. The Bride is 2nd from the right.and here are my other nieces, we never miss the opportunity to take a selfie when we’re together
Now it’s your turn to tell me something good, and what made you smile this week!
Paula has chosen Female as this week’s topic.
Female: Besties since childhood-50 years
Female: Fun with Nieces
Female: Mother-Daughter Moment
A seagull as he glides along above the ocean…..
A Butterfly as she alights on a flower…
A bride as she walks down the aisle…
A few weeks ago my weekly smile was receiving an invitation to a wedding from a young girl I had mentored from 2004 until 2008. I volunteered in a “Big Sister”/Mentoring program and I was paired up with a young girl who had a troubled home life and needed some time away from it once a week after school for a few hours. This young girl was 10 or 11 at the time, and we would go out to eat and talk, or go shopping and then out to eat. There were 6 kids in the family and a mother who couldn’t really handle it, a father rarely home, the house was a mess, no order whatsoever. The older kids seemed to be keeping things running. Her age belied her maturity- she was introspective about the home situation and accepting of it, her intelligence allowing her to see the bigger picture and make sense of it all. I stayed in the role of “big sister” for about 4 years until she was a teenager and busy with school and going out with her friends. I have not thought of her in years, actually forgetting about this volunteering of so long ago-that had ended in 2008 .
Last month I received a wedding invitation from this young girl- now a young woman. I was very touched and so surprised that she had not only remembered me but had taken the time to send me an invitation.
Last night was the wedding- and as I approached her to say hello, not sure if she would recognize me, she immediately called my name and came over to hug me. She told me how happy she was to receive my response card that I was coming. She then went on to tell me she had saved all the letters I had written to her when she was in sleep away camp as a child, and that is how she had my address. It was all I could do to hold back the tears I felt welling up in my eyes along with the lump in my throat.
I watched as she came down the aisle embarking on the beginning of her new life, thinking back to the child I had spent time with. Remembering again how we never know the impact we may have in someone’s life, and the imprint we may leave on the them.