A Day In The Life

People, Places, Nature, LIFE!

03/27/2016
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Lift the Edges

Daily Prompt: Edge

I made an omelette this morning.  I mixed the eggs together and poured them into the cast iron skillet. As the edges began to cook I lifted one side of the pan, tilting it, so the runny center could find its way to the edge. It was then my father came to mind. He had taught me to do this so many, many years ago. Maybe I was ten. He had shown me that making it this way the omelette would cook evenly. Keep lifting those edges and let the runny center go there so it too would cook. Thinking of this brought a smile to my face, the memory of it feeling like a warm hug.

My father liked to putter in the kitchen- he did not cook real meals, but made a fabulous fried egg sandwich, excellent deviled eggs (it was the paprika on top that made the difference) and an amazing pecan pie. He enjoyed good food, and always encouraged me to try everything.

I finished cooking my omelette, sat down with a cup of coffee and remembered him some more. 

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03/27/2016
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Looking for Love- It’s Spring!

As I took a walk this morning I spotted this Cardinal- his call beckoning a female companion070Look how pretty my feathers are!071Lady Cardinal played hard to get- turning her back on him074But eventually joined him in a bush- keeping her distance -and still not looking his way075I suppose she gave him a second thought as she climbed to a branch above where he stood
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03/25/2016
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Feathers on Friday

As I was working at the  sink in my kitchen today, I kept hearing the call of a bird, looking for mate I supposed as it went on and on. I spotted where the sound came from and saw a Junco preening, as he took a break from singing016

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He then took a break to munch on some of the greens on the tree031

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Fed and cleaned up he returned to the  business of finding a mate019

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03/20/2016
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Fighting for Life

The Daily Prompt: Fight

For many years I  served as a volunteer in the Pastoral Care Department of a hospital. I visited patients and talked with them, sometimes the nature of our conversations was spiritual, other times it was just about whatever was on their mind. There is one patient who will forever stand out in my mind. The day I went to enter her room in August of 2009, the head nurse told me I most likely wouldn’t have luck, she didn’t want visitors, and wasn’t talking to anyone.  Her name was Sammy. She was 21.sammy gabbay8-2009
I walked in and she asked me if I liked make up. Sure did. So she pulled out a giant box filled with every imaginable color of lipstick, blush, and eye shadow you can imagine. The door had been opened to let me in, and through it I went. She was diagnosed with Lymphoma when she was 18, and had undergone countless rounds of Chemotherapy but never went into remission. Her mother rarely came to visit her in the hospital, but her friends did. They traveled over an hour a few days a week and her hospital room would turn into a college dorm room. Laughter, antics, all while she was hooked up to a Morphine drip that should have had her flat out sleeping. I visited her everyday, we put on makeup, trying out new eye shadow colors and lipsticks. She loved lipstick that had a “sparkle” in it- she told me everyone needs a little sparkle in their life. She showed me the jewelry she had ordered online from her hospital bed, all the while telling the Doctors she would not leave the hospital until they agreed to give her a stem cell transplant. They kept telling her it would do no good, she was too weak, it made no sense. But she wouldn’t- couldn’t hear it. In one of the rare times she opened up to me, when the jewelry and the makeup and the laughter were put away, she said flat out It’s not fair, I’m supposed to be in college, going out with my friends, have a boyfriend. I’m not giving in, I’m entitled to have a life- I’m 21. There were no words I could say other than YOU ARE RIGHT. Her determination to live had kept her going longer than any of her doctors had predicted.

Sammy did get her stem cell transplant, and to the surprise of the doctors she did live for almost 2 months afterwards, but the fight was not won. She died in January of 2010. I learned so many lessons from this young girl that I still think of her often. Her determination, her unwillingness to give up, to fight, her ability to change her surroundings into something positive while spending months in a hospital room. Yes, she was cheated out of a life. She was right. But that short life left an impression on all those she touched, that will last our lifetime. And I still wear sparkly lipstick.blowkiss

03/17/2016
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Thursday’s Special: Tall

The Freedom Tower- standing where the World Trade Center Twin Towers once stood, is the tallest skyscraper in the Western Hemisphere, and the sixth-tallest in the world. Imposing even from a distance, as I took this photo from Liberty State Park in New Jersey, across the Hudson River.005

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Even more imposing when passing it on the West Side Highway and viewing it looking up from a car 012

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03/16/2016
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One Word Photo Challenge: Bench

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But take a look from a different angle042and you see one side is a woman in profile, with a cat on her “lap”.045 (2)

The other side the face has broken off, but her hand holds a book. It’s pages read:

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Such a lovely way to remember someone -“She was the best”

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03/13/2016
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Incomplete

The first thing that popped into my head when I saw the Daily Prompt Incomplete, were people whose lives seemed to have been cut short when they still had so much more life to live. Their lives incomplete, and the lives of those they left behind incomplete without them.

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03/13/2016
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Misstep

One misstep and I found myself laying on the floor, seeing stars, clutching my left elbow with my right hand and feeling what had once been bone was now reduced to crumbles like sand. One misstep, tripping over someone’s foot I had not seen, led to a year’s worth of physical therapy, two surgeries, and a time in my life I would like to forget, and was glad to move on from. Thankful I could move on from it.

Lesson learned: always watch where you’re going so as not to misstep!

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Daily Prompt: Misstep

03/07/2016
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Trivia Night!

This past weekend I attended a Trivia Night in our local synagogue. A friend of mine was putting together a team and asked my husband and me to be part of it. I usually am not a game player, and am not one of those people who has a broad range of knowledge on a lot of topics, but we figured it would be fun and would get us out of the house on a Saturday night. Our team leader’s name is June so we called our team June Bugs.

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The trivia was divided into categories, with about 8 questions in each.  We had 1 minute to discuss between ourselves what we thought an answer was after it was read out loud and appeared on a  screen. The categories included Jewish topics, Sports, Geography, Science, History, Entertainment, Music and Food.

There were 8 of us on our team and it was a good mix of those who knew about some topics and those who hadn’t a clue. It started with the Jewish topics, Which 4 rivers are mentioned in the Book of Genesis that flowed from the Garden of Eden? That was a tricky one and putting our collective heads together we only remembered 2. No worries, the next question was Gematria- for every Hebrew letter there is a numerical equivalent, and the question was to add together the numerical equivalent of the first 4 letters of the alphabet, then divide them and subtract….they lost me at adding them, but my husband got it no problem. Next was identifying these 2 people. (All answers are listed at the bottom of this post.)

When the Sports section came up my husband and the team leader’s husband left it to everyone else at the table as they know absolutely zero about sports. Fortunately there were 2 real sports buffs and they managed to get us through that section. One question was, Which baseball team has won the SECOND most world series championships. Even I correctly figured The Yankees were the first, but the 2nd? One of the guys on our team got it right for us!

Here are some photos of mustachioed baseball players- who all looked like Tom Selleck to me, but apparently were not. They were once again correctly identified between 2 of the men on our team.

The Science section was challenging- we had no Doctors on our team. What is the heaviest organ in the human body? What are the symbols on the Periodic Table for Gold, Oxygen, Iron, Tin. Oxygen was the only one I remembered from having to memorize the Periodic Table in 9th grade.

For the Entertainment section we were shown clips from movies that we had to identify- all were easy- Fatal Attraction, Moonstruck, Tootsie, Ferris Bueller’s Day Off, and Beverly Hills Cop. The music section consisted of hearing a few bars from different songs that were played that we had to identify. It went fast but we got just about all of them. Most songs were easily recognizable but remembering their titles was challenging.

For the food section they showed photos of some different fruits

Then they brought out samples of syrups we had to taste and identify. I correctly identified all but one, they were honey, agave, maple syrup, molasses, and we incorrectly identified what turned out to be corn syrup. Then we were given some vegetables to taste- they were cut up into pieces so they were not easily identifiable. Okra, Parsnip, Yellow Beet, Watermelon Radish.

After each section was completed they announced the scores. Our team’s name was called first so we let out a whoop in unison only to find out a second later that we were the lowest scoring in that section. We improved as the evening went on, but not by much. We finished in last place when it was all over. It didn’t matter- we had a good time and had learned some new things too. Who knew that the largest desert on Earth is the Antarctic Desert, not the Sahara as we had thought?

Answers:

The 4 rivers are: Pishon, Gichon,Chidekel,Perat

Photo of woman in uniform is Hannah Senesh, Man is Benjamin Netanyahu

Second most World Series Championships: St. Louis Cardinals

Photos l to r: Dennis Eckersley, Rollie Fingers, Mike Schmidt

Heaviest Organ: The Liver

Gold: AU, Oxygen: O, Iron: Fe, Tin: Sn

Left: Dragon fruit Right: Ugli Fruit

03/06/2016
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Connection

The Daily Prompt: Write a new post in response to today’s one-word prompt

Connection brings to mind the  people in my life. Those who I am most connected to- my husband, my best friend of 43 years, members of my extended family. Our connections run deep, and have been forged through our experiences together.

We are connected through words and through touch. We are connected through the places we have been, the laughter we have shared, the tears we have cried. Through the days turning into years, through the gains and the losses. It is a comfort to be connected, to know we have one another, that we are never alone.3000000600000019700b

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