Last night a childhood friend sent me a photo via Facebook messaging. I had never seen the photo before, had no recollection of who took it, where it was taken or when it was taken. It was jarring to see my face as a teenager staring back at me, familiar yet unfamiliar. A moment caught in time, not a special occasion, just friends hanging out together and someone must have had a camera and taken the pic. A moment lost to memory, making me realize there must be so many of those moments lost to time, to the years, to life moving forward and leaving just traces of the person I was behind. New friends, new experiences, replacing the past. My friend said she figured it was the year we were in 8th grade, probably 13 or 14 years old. It is hard to believe almost 50 years have gone by since then. Makes me think about how so much has been forgotten, has become unimportant, how little I knew then, how little I may still know….
07/05/2020 at 2:11 pm
Don’t you wish you knew that whole story of that moment and what you may have been thinking?
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07/06/2020 at 1:24 pm
Yes yes yes. NO recollection of even hanging out with the girl next to me. We were friends when we were much younger, but I really don’t remember it at all. That’s what makes it so disconcerting
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07/03/2020 at 7:24 pm
How little we knew then…yes…and how we thought Everything was So Important. I have photos like this – moments in time is just what they were. And jarring is often my reaction as well. The number of years that have passed – it’s hard to believe!
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07/05/2020 at 6:40 am
I am glad you can relate and understand! Thank you
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07/05/2020 at 7:15 am
You’re welcome. 🙂
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07/03/2020 at 1:11 pm
I think it’s a wonderful photo, Lisa. And I agree with your words, things forgotten, lost in time. What if you could go back to those days?
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07/03/2020 at 2:23 pm
Oh I would not go back… such tumultuous times, teenage angst, trying to “find” myself. With age came wisdom, and caring less about what people think…..
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07/03/2020 at 4:01 pm
All true, Lisa! these days I don’t much care what people think to a degree.
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