Five Things-A Reblog from The Off Key Of Life

I am sharing the following post  written by my friend George, who writes a wonderful blog called The Off Key Of Life

In his words:

Five Things

He also speaks about a palliative care nurse by the name of Bonnie Ware who works with people every day who are usually three to twelve months from dying.

According to Dr. Bradberry, Bonnie has made a habit of asking her patients, during their conversations, if they had any real regrets in life. The following five responses made the list every time.

** They wish they hadn’t made decisions based on what other people think.
They realized when they lived life for others, they either made poor career choices or compromised  their own morals.

** They wished they hadn’t worked so hard.
We are programmed or taught that hard work leads to certain results or rewards in life; that we are providing for our families, their futures and well-being. But balance has always been the key when it comes to how much time we spend at our jobs. When work compromises a person’s ability to communicate and connect with those we love most, then our priorities need to be reassessed. As the old saying goes, no one on their death-bed ever said, I wish I would have stayed at the office longer. 

** They wish the had expressed their feelings.
We always think we have more time to say the things we need or should say to others. When time runs out, the regret of not having said those things is sometimes difficult to accept. In the words of John Mayer, Say What You Need To Say

** They wish they had stayed in touch with their friends.
With our day-to-day routines pulling us in many different directions, it’s easy to lose track of friends. Then thirty years go by and you wonder how and why it happened. Reach out.

** They wish that had let themselves be happy.
This was an interesting one for me but as I thought about it I understood why it would be there. Michael J Fox was on a magazine cover not long ago; an individual who has battled Parkinson’s disease since he was thirty years old. On the cover he was quoted as saying, Happiness Is A Decision.
He’s absolutely right. We all encounter challenges in our lives. Some more so than others. How we face those challenges and live our lives is our choice. It may not always be easy to accept or live with those challenges but our lives would be much richer and rewarding if we can allow ourselves to be happy.

Happiness is our choice.

Five things that can make a difference in each of our lives. All we need to do is listen to the suggestions of those who truly understand.

 

10 thoughts on “Five Things-A Reblog from The Off Key Of Life

  1. George found a powerful message to share. I like the reminder to, “Choose to Be Happy.” It is easier said than done! Lisa, I am a worrier. “Letting things go,” is a daily mantra of mine. 🙂
    Have a wonderful week ahead! 💮🌸🏵

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    • I am a worrier too, though I keep in mind that sometimes what I am worrying about may never come to be so it is a waste of energy. I will try to remember the message of choose to be happy too!

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  2. Good post, Lisa. Several years ago, I read Michael J Fox’s book, the title of which eludes me now. But it amazed me the positive attitude he maintains after all he has been through. You can’t help but smile and think, ‘could be worse.’ Be happy!

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